Thinking About Visiting Your Pen Pal?


Here's a fairly common scenario: you meet an amazing pen pal, you exchange letters and emails, talk on the phone, and make a genuine connection. But you want something more. You want to see them in person, hug them, hear their laugh, or even eat a meal together. It's time to think about filling out a visiting application. Visiting an inmate, especially if it's your first time at a prison, can cause feelings of stress and anxiety. However, it's not as scary as it probably seems. In this episode, PenPals.Buzz founder, Big Steve, and office manager, Daisy, share their real-life stories and advice to help ensure your first visit goes as smoothly as possible. They also discuss topics such as visiting room food, dress codes, do's and don'ts, and even the people you may meet in the waiting room. Steve also speaks with a PenPals.Buzz member, Jacques Avery, who is incarcerated in Illinois and hoping to meet a woman who will eventually visit him.
This was recorded shortly after the PenPals.Buzz office manager, Daisy, started working with us. She shared her insights and some great stories about her experiences with visitation in prison -- how to sign up, how to make sure you get to the prison on time, the dress code, and a number of other interesting (and even humorous) stories. This episode should really benefit anyone thinking of visiting their loved one in prison. Also in the episode, we interviewed PenPals.Buzz member Jacques Avery. He talks about what he's looking for in a pen pal, and shares his love of cooking and his dream to one day Beat Bobby Flay! Jacques can be contacted at
Jacques Avery #R61271
1300 W. Locust St.
PO Box 999
Canton, IL 61520
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